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Theboywouldthenfalltothegrass,getu,andwithouthesitationorwithoutlookingbackathismother,runasfastashecould,again,stillwithasmileonhisface,asifnothinghadhaened。

However,withkids(eseciallyatanearlyage),whentheyfalldown,theydonterceivetheirfallingdownasfailure,butinstead,theytreatitasalearningexerience(asjustanotherresult

outcome)。

Theyfeelcomelledtotryandtryagainuntiltheysucceed。

(Theanswermustbe…theyhavenotassociated

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fallingdown

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withtheword

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failure

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yet,thustheydontknowhowtofeelthestateaccomaniesfailure。

Asaresult,theyarenotdisemoweredinanyway。

Plus,theyrobablythinktothemselvesthatitserfectlyokaytofalldown,thatitsnotwrongtodoso。

Inotherwords,theygivethemselvesermissiontomakemistakes,subconsciously。

Thustheyremainemowered。

)WhileIwastouchedbytheboysersistence,Iwasequallytouchedbythemannerinheran。

Witheachattemt,helookedsoconfident…sonatural。

Nosignsoffear,nervousness,orofbeingdiscouraged—asifhedidntgiveacareabouttheworldaroundhim。

Hisonlyaimwastorunfreelyandtodoitaseffectivelyashecould。

Hewasjustbeingachild—justbeinghimself—beingcomletelyinthemoment。

Hewasnotlookingforarovalorwasnotworryingaboutwhethersomeonewaswatchingornot,hewasntconcernedaboutbeingjudged。

Hedidntseemtobebotheredbythefactthatmaybesomeonewouldseehimfall(astherewereothersinthearkasidefromhimandhismother)andthatitwouldbeembarrassingifhedidfall。

No,allthatmatteredtohimwastoaccomlishthetaskoractivityathandtothebestofhisability。

Torun…andtofeeltheexerienceofrunningfullyandfreely。

Ilearnedalotfromthatobservationandexerience,andhavesuccessfullybroughtthatlessonwithmeinmymanyursuitsinlife。

Sincethen,Ivealwaysbelievedthatineachofusisalittlechildwithabsolutecourage。

Achildthathastheabilitytorunfreely(orexresshimselffullyandfreely)—withoutacareforanythingexternal—withoutacareforwhateolewouldsayifhe

sheexeriencesafall。

Ibelievethatthatcourageousartofus,thatcourageouschildwithinusall,willalwaysbewithusforaslongaswelive。

Weonlyneedtoallowittoemergemorefully。

Weonlyneedtoonceagainconnectwiththatchildwithinus—andgivethatchildermissiontorunfreely,justlikethatboyintheark。


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