Theboywouldthenfalltothegrass,getu,andwithouthesitationorwithoutlookingbackathismother,runasfastashecould,again,stillwithasmileonhisface,asifnothinghadhaened。
However,withkids(eseciallyatanearlyage),whentheyfalldown,theydonterceivetheirfallingdownasfailure,butinstead,theytreatitasalearningexerience(asjustanotherresult
outcome)。
Theyfeelcomelledtotryandtryagainuntiltheysucceed。
(Theanswermustbe…theyhavenotassociated
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fallingdown
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withtheword
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failure
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yet,thustheydontknowhowtofeelthestateaccomaniesfailure。
Asaresult,theyarenotdisemoweredinanyway。
Plus,theyrobablythinktothemselvesthatitserfectlyokaytofalldown,thatitsnotwrongtodoso。
Inotherwords,theygivethemselvesermissiontomakemistakes,subconsciously。
Thustheyremainemowered。
)WhileIwastouchedbytheboysersistence,Iwasequallytouchedbythemannerinheran。
Witheachattemt,helookedsoconfident…sonatural。
Nosignsoffear,nervousness,orofbeingdiscouraged—asifhedidntgiveacareabouttheworldaroundhim。
Hisonlyaimwastorunfreelyandtodoitaseffectivelyashecould。
Hewasjustbeingachild—justbeinghimself—beingcomletelyinthemoment。
Hewasnotlookingforarovalorwasnotworryingaboutwhethersomeonewaswatchingornot,hewasntconcernedaboutbeingjudged。
Hedidntseemtobebotheredbythefactthatmaybesomeonewouldseehimfall(astherewereothersinthearkasidefromhimandhismother)andthatitwouldbeembarrassingifhedidfall。
No,allthatmatteredtohimwastoaccomlishthetaskoractivityathandtothebestofhisability。
Torun…andtofeeltheexerienceofrunningfullyandfreely。
Ilearnedalotfromthatobservationandexerience,andhavesuccessfullybroughtthatlessonwithmeinmymanyursuitsinlife。
Sincethen,Ivealwaysbelievedthatineachofusisalittlechildwithabsolutecourage。
Achildthathastheabilitytorunfreely(orexresshimselffullyandfreely)—withoutacareforanythingexternal—withoutacareforwhateolewouldsayifhe
sheexeriencesafall。
Ibelievethatthatcourageousartofus,thatcourageouschildwithinusall,willalwaysbewithusforaslongaswelive。
Weonlyneedtoallowittoemergemorefully。
Weonlyneedtoonceagainconnectwiththatchildwithinus—andgivethatchildermissiontorunfreely,justlikethatboyintheark。
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